January, 2013

    Beginner’s Tip: Strappy Camis

    So, I had enough fun writing the last “tips” article, I thought I’d put together another one. I’m just learning this stuff myself, but I like sharing what I’m learning for the next newbie who wanders by. One of the first habits I developed after embracing my feminine side was underdressing. I suspect it’s one […]

    Am I a Crossdresser?

    I’m beginning to question myself. I’m the kind of person who likes labels. Not to straightjacket things, just to keep them organized. When I decided to face these feelings in me head-on, I assumed that the proper label for me was crossdresser: a guy who wants to wear women’s clothes. It seemed like the easiest […]

    Let’s Talk About …

    This NSFW post is part of a series. For some chronology and context concerning this post, see Where did it all begin?, Why Didn’t I Buy Nike?, My Best Day Ever, and College Bound and Gagged. Everything I’ve written so far has been easy. This is where they get hard to write, or at least […]

    DIY Fashions: Perfect For Beginner Crossdressing

    Ah! Sunday mornings! It’s the morning when most people go to church to feel better spiritually. I suppose it’s becoming the same for me, because Sunday mornings are when I’m alone in the house and can become Me again. It’s very centering and the feelings I get today can last me the rest of the […]

    Neat Tip Sheet

    Sigh. No time to write the last few days. Sorry. But I thought I’d share this: a really helpful tip sheet that the Call Me Meg blog posted yesterday: Feminine Poise Tip Sheet Lots of things on there to practice, practice, practice!

    The Name Game

    Ali! Ali, Ali, bo Bali, Banana-fana fo Fali, Fe fi fo Mali, Ali! OMG that song has been stuck in my head since they did it on American Horror Story a couple weeks ago. Damn you Jessica Lange! Anyway, there it is. The new name. Which is actually the old name, truth be told. During the […]

    College Bound And Gagged

    Here’s another of the rambling, self-analytical posts about where it all went wrong and how crossdressing fits into everything. For chronology and context, see Where did it all begin?, Why Didn’t I Buy Nike?, and My Best Day Ever. As high school ended, my opportunities to dress dried up. Around graduation I started a brief […]

    What’s In A Name?

    If you look up at the title of this blog, you’ll notice that Aria is gone. As I said when I made the change, I was trying on the name for awhile. While I think it’s a beautiful name, I don’t think it was the name for me. To be honest, there’s a name that’s […]

    My Best Day Ever

    This is the next in a series of posts where I am trying to sort out where it all began and how badly it all went wrong before it got right again. For chronology and context, see Where did it all begin? and Why Didn’t I Buy Nike? By the time I was in high […]

    Why Didn’t I Buy Nike?

    Alright, folks. I warned you it was coming. I don’t have many readers anyway, and this may start driving them off, but if I’m going to make this blog anything but an honest record of one man’s coming to terms with his crossdressing self, it’s going to happen by showing how it’s never really just […]